Eliminating the Source of Your Speaking Discomfort Once and For All

Quite often when arms and an urge are coming out of your mouth it’s a sign that there’s a problem it’s a sign that you’re feeling uncomfortable.

Well one of the biggest reasons for being uncomfortable is fear of not being interesting to your audience.

Fear of being boring.

Fear of not being understood.

Guess what.

That’s a legitimate fear to have because so many people when they give speeches briefs talks are in fact boring.

So it makes complete sense that you’re uncomfortable.

So I want us to go even deeper and go beyond the superficial causes and look at what’s really causing us a problem sometimes the problem is we have a boring speech.

The solution is you need to practice your speech we’ll talk about that more in just a moment.

Practice a speech that you know is interesting that you know is memorable.

That is a speech a presentation a talk even a voice mail.

You personally would want to listen to that you would understand and that you would remember if we solve that problem if we get you to the point where you’re confident you’ve got a great message.

Interesting ideas that the person you’re speaking to the group you’re speaking to will find interesting understandable and memorable.

That’s going to make you so much more relaxed and when you’re relaxed you kind of forget to say I’m an R and you know.