Wedding Speech Cheat Sheet

ok I know you’re nervous.

I’ll give you a little crutch if you’ve got to have notes and I don’t think you do because you’re only focusing on one idea one story.

But if you absolutely have to have notes have it on a sheet of paper this small and just a couple of words two three words to really jar your memory and don’t stand up and look good to have it in your pocket or somewhere low and then just sort of pull it out toss it down on the table so you can’t see it.

That’s how you want your audience to experience it.

And then if you have to glance down fine don’t be seen holding notes.

Don’t be seen touching notes for goodness sake don’t have multiple pages where you’re flipping notes.

But if you have to have a tiny three by five card a little post it note for a couple of things or some names.

That’s fine but it should be very very unobtrusive.

Remember your eyes should not be on notes your eyes should be looking at that bride that groom the father the mother and all the other esteemed guests.